Do Girls Need Any Man?

girls .. here we are .. we are the goddess for the world .. and how about men ..?
does each girl need any man just to make her world to be more complete?
well it depends .. maybe some girls will say yes and may not ..
and ...
how can we define man ..? do men meant to be the partner of women's life? 
do men always act cruel or fool? we'll never know .. cos we never find the real fact of men ..
men are so great of playing games of life .. men are so amazing that they can act for real ..
they can pretend as much as they want to .. as in result , truth is hard to find ..
what do girls ask for from men ..? the basic answer is about true love .. but i tell you, there is no true love in this world .. when it comes to jealousy, money, hatred .... true love is no longer a true love .. hmm wait a minute .. what do u mean by love? how do you interpret love ?
is love about feelings only? is love about money only? or is love about benefits? or somehow honesty ?..... who knows ..
there is a lot of stories if u want to explore in this universe .. 
a couple love each other .. they break up and then make up .. and it keeps repeating .. so what's the point of being in a relationship ..? it's pointless ...
as i learned from my friends stories .. men are always take benefits from women ..
this is how they role in a relationship .. at first, they try so hard to get you .. they act so nice and they treat you in a very great way .. then women will feel that no other man can treat them as nice as this man .. second, after they get what they chased, they will be a "fire" of relationship .. they will tell you how much they love you EVERY SINGLE TIME .. as much as they can.. but wait girls, that will only happen for a few months .. remember , nothing last forever .. just because they do that to us .. they have our love,heart,mind and trust .. and they start to act fool or dumb maybe .. for some guys, they want to "test" us .. how much we love them .. do cheating, trying not to care, act like they dont need you .. or maybe for some other guys, they just get bored of you and they try to abandoned you .. left you in sorrow ..
and that's how they do ..
im not saying that every man in this world is like that .. BUT most of them do that to girls ..
men always wanted to be love by a lot of girls but they only fall for one girl! how selfish they are .. 
well i can't deny it .. there is a lot of girls that do that too but not as much as men ..
for some nice girls, they don't need diamond to make them happy .. they don't need a hand just to grab "a thing" .. they don't need a man to make a better life just with money ..
and they don't need a ring in their finger just to make them complete .. NO they dont!
all they ask for is only a love .. means .. they need a man that they can rely on .. they need a man that understand how they feel .. they need a man that can make them laugh and cry ..
they need attention! most of girls are demanding of anything .. 
there is a sentence .. " the more you try to sell .. the less i buy it " .. actually for me its quite true .. they don't like aggressive men .. i mean a bit too much .. it's a big NO NO ..
they need an equal to capture their heart .. women need a man who takes responsibility for his actions and understands the consequences are his .. women need 
a man who can share his feelings without letting them overwhelm him on a daily basis ..

girls .. i tell you something .. characteristics of a good man will tell you what he stands for, the values he lives by, and the morals that shape his behaviour.. this determines how he treats you and how he treats himself .. and the most important thing is about the personality .. personality is the way he presents himself to the world .. the way he expresses himself on the outside .. if you find a man who is committed to growing and improving himself as a person that he wants to learn everything he can about being a better person .. he should make you feel good when you are with him and he does not allow other people mistreat you .. this is a characteristic of a good man..steer clear of the man who is a negative person who is always complaining cos this type of person will drain all your energy and bring you down ..

sometimes i don't understand why a girl really wants to do anything just to make the lover feels happy? tho the girl knows that man is not for them .. tho she knows that the man shows that they are not welcome in his life .. is it maybe because the girl care too much about the man or is she stupid or something? ........
does anyone has a suggestion for this question .. or maybe an answer *hmm that'll be great LOL* 



Joanna -